I'm not a furry if I have feathers.
Just don't rush it.
Or if you do, don't make it some fantasy drama where you promise you'll be together forever. Be honest and upfront about your intentions with the person you decide to hook up with (or pay- and no, that's not a jab).
Rushing it can result in an experience that ruins the whole thing for you and being dishonest and delusional ends in disaster because someone is going to have a meltdown when they snap back to reality. Or it could play out like my ex, who basically ended his facade/interest in me once he'd gotten what he wanted. :/ I only say that because it can definitely go both ways and it's always sad.
Hmmm. It's quite strange to think that something that is supposed to induce pleasure can lead to harm. But I do understand that some people use it for their own interests maliciously. Then again if I play it "safe" by either agreeing to do it with someone strictly for casual purposes or go to Vegas n' such, there shouldn't be any drama afterwards since I know what to expect.Being desperate to lose your v-card is going to get you hurt. Mentally/emotionally and quite possibly PHYSICALLY. There are some legit nasty people lurking within and without the fandom who will do horrible things to you, and they will use sex or the promise of it to do it.
I'm throwing pearls before the swine here but JESUS.
And hey I could wait but at the same time I don't want to lose it when I'm like fuckin 50 or something.