As long as they don’t do them on bases, I doubt any of the NSFW artists who do ref sheets would refuse business on the basis of you not wanting “pink bits” on it? Like, I don’t know if getting a ref done by someone who also draws porn would make you uncomfortable, in itself (which is alright), or what other roadblocks there might also be. If you have a particular style in mind, let us know and maybe someone will have a recommendation for you?Ok, not really like a vent, just an irritating frustration.
Really hard finding an amazing artist for an sfw ref sheet. Just a normal, non-sexualized, regular boobs, non-fetishy ref sheet. Which I think I make harder by not smiling so much and having a resting uncaring expression most of the time.