Too real.
*hugs you super tightly*
I'm calling it a night, but I want you to remember this and what actually happened.
Not sure I follow this at all. Are you saying you ended up watching the alt account of someone you blocked?
There’s no rule against using multiple accounts. If they show up in your watch feed, go unwatch them. If they show up on the main recent submissions feed (front page and browse page), that’s basically tough titties. Blocking doesn’t prevent you seeing their submissions, it only prevents them from interacting with you.
Hey bud,
Hey now, you're one few people who bring me happiness on here. Honestly, you are the complete opposite of a failure. I've been shunned by so many people countless times in the past, and the fact that you still interact with me here and there, even when I've presented myself really shitty over and over in the past, it shows you have more compassion than most people on the face of the earth from my experience, and that means a lot in my world. Don't sell yourself short, or let anyone else make you feel that way for the matter. Chemistry between people is very complicated sometimes, and sometimes individuals don't fully understand what they're trying to seek in terms of love, affection, and relationship from another person(s), and it doesn't necessarily make anyone involved a "failure", because all of our minds are still growing and understanding what we all want, and are limits of offering back, but our expectations seem to come before that maturity.
You can remove the submissions though and I don't nuke the submissions, I just find it odd that someone I blocked or has blocked me still has things that pop up in my submissions despite the fact you can't watch someone who blocked you.
Oh no...I don't remember ever watching the alt account of this one person since I remembered blocking him, his work just so happened to turn up in my recent submissions up until when I removed them.
That's just how the site works; you can't start watching someone who blocked you, but if you're already watching them it won't cancel that watch.
True. But like I said you can remove the submissions or nuke the submissions section entirely, although I rarely use the nuke option.
seems the problem here is you're incapable of standing up on your own two feet.
Once again I am critically at an absence of context (and, since this is a no doubt sensitive matter, I'm fine with keeping it that way).
Yeah, I have done this kinda thing before in middle school, gone a year dating as many people as possible and then not dating again for 4 or so years. Just need to wonder and understand more about myself
I don’t think I understand?
Thank you. *gives you a super tight hug* keep being out there youre cooler than you think.
You are by no means a failure, love. You make this place better, and it's always fun to chat and interact with you. You like everyone else make mistakes which is absolutely and perfectly normal. And it's through making mistakes we learn the most and quickest.
Thank you. I’ve been recommended to go to therapy to get help and I’m taking that advice. We’re working on it but it’s sorta slow and I guess doesn’t make me feel better about past relationships
tl;dr: As an outside observer, if anyone has been telling you such things (or been actively feeding such thoughts / strongly inferring in a direct effort to lead you towards such conclusions... hell, simply not making an effort to dissuade you from such thoughts), this sounds like a partner and / or past partner's trying to emotionally drag you down and leave you dependent on them. As well as make you feel indebted / grateful / lucky that they 'put up with you', all rolled up in "Can you ever be sure you'll be this lucky again?"