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RamblingRenegade

RamblingRenegade

Just a Horse Trying to Avoid Life's Manure
Baron Tredegar said:
I dont have that many nightmares but when I was younger I would have a few terrifying nightmares about the rapture.

I live in Georgia which means winters for me are cold and raining. Winter down here sucks.
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People in Minnesota be like.... LOL
 
Parabellum3

Parabellum3

I'm not a furry if I have feathers.
I tried the app called Barq recently. I messaged people that I was interested in nearby but got no responses, how did I fuck up already?
 
BooTheHamster

BooTheHamster

Banned
Banned
Parabellum3 said:
I tried the app called Barq recently. I messaged people that I was interested in nearby but got no responses, how did I fuck up already?
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Who says you fucked up? That's not really uncommon with those sorts of apps. That said, maybe you just need practice with socialization. Online spaces tend to be a poor place to hone those skills, whether it's social media or dating apps.
 
Parabellum3

Parabellum3

I'm not a furry if I have feathers.
BooTheHamster said:
Who says you fucked up? That's not really uncommon with those sorts of apps. That said, maybe you just need practice with socialization. Online spaces tend to be a poor place to hone those skills, whether it's social media or dating apps.
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I could practice if people told me what the fuck is wrong. As of now I can only run in circles trying to chase after the flaws within me.
 
BooTheHamster

BooTheHamster

Banned
Banned
Parabellum3 said:
I could practice if people told me what the fuck is wrong. As of now I can only run in circles trying to chase after the flaws within me.
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I mean, maybe do a bit of introspection on how you approach others, how you come off. Talk to yourself in a mirror, say the same things you say to others, ask yourself if you'd be the friend of the person in the mirror. Again, this is the kind of thing a psychotherapist can help you pin down, but keep in mind that people aren't attention ATMs that just spit out attention when you press a button or something. Relationships can be complex, you are the only factor in that equation you have control over.
 
Minerva_Minx

Minerva_Minx

Explosion loving skooma cat
Woozle said:
I'm not sure if you understood me, but I wasn't actually raped. In the month and a half waiting to go to magistrate court I had vivid nightmares about prison rape. I've never been to prison and I was so terrified of what it would be like. I was so sure that the worst would happen.
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Typing isn't as good as a phone call or face to face. And half the time, I have to be short and blunt when I read and respond as I'm on the job. I figured it was something like that, so no worries. When in an unknown and traumatic event, the imagination goes to the worst possible extreme. Glad everything worked out, but I would likely be having similar dreams.
 
TyraWadman

TyraWadman

The Brutally Honest Man-Child
Parabellum3 said:
I tried the app called Barq recently. I messaged people that I was interested in nearby but got no responses, how did I fuck up already?
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I don't know the app but I do know it happens no matter what app you use.

Bots, and weirdos who click 'match' on everyone just to cast a wide net and then not actually get in touch or connect with you.

I tried making friends on bumble and had the same problems. They're all dumb.
 
RamblingRenegade

RamblingRenegade

Just a Horse Trying to Avoid Life's Manure
whats worse is the free dating apps that aren't free so you sign up because someone is REALLY interested in you, so you pay their stupid fees to read the message and reply to a HI, and then when you write back they never respond.. how's that go, fool me once...LOL
 
Fallowfox

Fallowfox

Are we moomin, or are we dancer?
Baron Tredegar said:
I dont have that many nightmares but when I was younger I would have a few terrifying nightmares about the rapture.

I live in Georgia which means winters for me are cold and raining. Winter down here sucks.
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It has already snowed here.

quoting_mungo said:
Winter (or late fall) sucks. Have to wear extra clothes indoors and my hands get cold. It’s not quite cold enough yet to make my fingers hurt, but that’ll be coming.
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I find dry and ~0c the best weather for running and outdoor exercise. So I'm trying to take a positive view to it at the moment.
I am not looking forward to copious snow though.
 
Firuthi Dragovic

Firuthi Dragovic

World Serpent, overly defensive
Luxibutt

Luxibutt

Silly Pupper Girl
My heart is hurting. I was with my client today and he didn't seem well. I don't even think his daughter notices or something. I have no idea. But he wasn't responsive at some points today and I really kept an eye on him (I hope he didn't mind because I was practically almost staring hard). He had some water and root beer like he asked, but other than that...

Dammit old man, don't die on me now.
 
quoting_mungo

quoting_mungo

Well-Known Member
Fallowfox said:
I find dry and ~0c the best weather for running and outdoor exercise. So I'm trying to take a positive view to it at the moment.
I am not looking forward to copious snow though.
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I couldn’t put a number to it, but generally anything cold enough to make my breath fog is cold enough for my asthma to act up. I also have trouble getting my hands and feet warm again if they get cold (and no, I never smoked), and my hands can get painful if they get too cold.

My range of comfortable temperatures is just pretty narrow. I think my internal thermostat may be a bit janky.
 
Minerva_Minx

Minerva_Minx

Explosion loving skooma cat
Stupid sexy Flanders... I'm just glad it's cold outside and I can wear a coat.

Barista in, shall we say, tantalizing, Christmas costume that was probably wrong for the coffee shop... dang it..

Stupid sexy Flanders
 
Minerva_Minx

Minerva_Minx

Explosion loving skooma cat
Fricking screwdriver through frickin pants with stupid blood and dumb band-aid. Stinging alcohol. Stupid Flanders left hours ago....

Dork shirt which I'm glad ripped. Except for working in a blouse, not bad. Was actually happy that was left in the car.

I hate solo installations.
 
RamblingRenegade

RamblingRenegade

Just a Horse Trying to Avoid Life's Manure
It's a Simpsons character, Homer's neighbor, the episode is he sees flanders in a skin tight ski suit, where he brags it's like wearing nothing at all, and homet keeps having flashbacks to seeing flanders instead of what hes supposed to be thinking of
 
R

Rap_Daniel

Moving to Furrypile! https://furrypile.co.uk/
I dun like when I skip ads and then get more ads.. This concludes my vent :3
 
Fallowfox

Fallowfox

Are we moomin, or are we dancer?
quoting_mungo said:
I couldn’t put a number to it, but generally anything cold enough to make my breath fog is cold enough for my asthma to act up. I also have trouble getting my hands and feet warm again if they get cold (and no, I never smoked), and my hands can get painful if they get too cold.

My range of comfortable temperatures is just pretty narrow. I think my internal thermostat may be a bit janky.
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One of the researchers I used to work with had Raynaud's, so she had to be careful about getting hands colds.

I think a lot of us in Europe are a bit soft because we're used to mild clement weather. From what I've seen we tend to walk around more rather than drive too, so we get more exposed to the outside.
 
Minerva_Minx

Minerva_Minx

Explosion loving skooma cat
RamblingRenegade said:
It's a Simpsons character, Homer's neighbor, the episode is he sees flanders in a skin tight ski suit, where he brags it's like wearing nothing at all, and homet keeps having flashbacks to seeing flanders instead of what hes supposed to be thinking of
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I'm trying to keep my vent to no higher than PG-13. So unlike SpongeBob and Sandi playing pvp karate, I was in a single player game.
 
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