TyraWadman
The Brutally Honest Man-Child
Yea. Life may not turn out the way you expect, bit whatever happens, you can still choose.to live and die by your own rules or someone else's.
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ssaannttoo
Joy Boi
This is also a problem none of us live by our own rules. All of it is just stuff assholes before us made up.
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Nobody likes me either. Everyone who is dear to me is my mother and my friend, whom I met 3 years ago. They are the only people really important to me.
RamblingRenegade
Just a Horse Trying to Avoid Life's Manure
I'd have a beer with you except you're like 3k miles away at least..lol
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Mmm, from the point of view of biology and ethology, the only purpose of ANY creature's life is to leave offspring (this is indisputable).
Evolution has played a cruel joke on us, and a person can choose for himself what is the meaning of his life. But the fact is that in both cases, memory about you will be erased, so it doesn't really matter how you lived your life.
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Actually I don't think this is a problem. I know I will be here on the night of 30, 31 and... so on. So we can have a beer, and I'll smoke pipe for your health:>
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If you look at life from the point of view of an ant, every grain of sand has a meaning.
ben909
vaporeon character != mushroom characters
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I don't know why we got into philosophy at all. This is a topic for complaining and whiningXD
TyraWadman
The Brutally Honest Man-Child
You have to be in the right place. Think about it: are you going to have an easier time asking random people on the street to save themselves? Or do you think it will be easier to help someone that wants to be helped, and enrolls in the programs?
Think volunteers at a shelter or case workers and therapists. You can't save everyone (and it sucks) but that's unrealistic anyways. So focus on yourself and the ones that actually desire the help.
You may not like the rules but you can still choose how you live. Some people rebel and end up in jail. Some people go out on their own terms. I don't like working this shitty job but I do it because I want the money for my future goals and hobbies. I don't disbelieve people should be compensated for their services so I continue to make that sacrifice. Even if I wish I could take a perma nap most days. X)
Balskarr
The Lurking Hooman
Santo my boy. I want to say right now you have been a positive influence. I want to remind you that you likely will have more effect on people than you think. I don't know if I've come off as cold to you before, sort of why I want to let you know that I have nothing but good to say about you.
Some of what you're feeling just needs some time. Some things you won't be able to change right now but for the moment I just want you to know that you're a good person and I'm here to talk if you need it. I consider you a friend and I've just never been good at maintaining contact.
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Your friend should get 500 light slaps on the cheek for such audacity.*3*
Fallowfox
Are we moomin, or are we dancer?
Which cheek? :V
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Are you being facetious or otherwise not serious here
...This is a serious question
You downloaded a template (a picture, stock photo, etc. someone else came up with a long time ago for whatever reason)
You put words on it (made a joke, a statement, something)
Your friend uploaded it to Twitter
It got... 3k likes and 500 retweets (I'm guessing this is important to you)
and so you do not feel adequately recognized/compensated
I really just want to make sure I understand this situation
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Rayd
profound asshole
wild sarcasm with a twinge of bruised ego
Rayd
profound asshole
LIGHT slaps???
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Oh. Damn it, I get it. Yes, I'm sorry! Hit him like the end time! I even think you can kick his ass with a wet towel.
ssaannttoo
Joy Boi
Like this is something I know but accepting is different. Help needs to be something people want to have a buy in to do. I can’t make somebody do something but maybe I could persuade somebody to want help. Be a friend to them so they know I care about their self interest before putting forward a possible change or explain an issue. And even that like. I don’t want to say I have a god complex but I want to be able to control. I want to stop people from doing things to hurt themselves, or to make sure a friend does what’s good for them. I know I dant say what is best for people but.. I just want them happy.
Thank you. Part of that blame also falls onto me.i will try to remember to message ya sometime this week. While part of my worry for this specifically came from a very failed attempt at hoping to mend a community and to bridge understanding between me and my friends. It went poorly and I don’t wish to get into details. But it felt like kindness was my only good part. And if that doesn’t do anything to make things better then I’m just a dummy college student with no real skills. I can’t actually do anything. I’ve been told many times, in many ways, by many people my kindness is an issue, that it helps bad people and that it negatively effects me. And I don’t want to make the world worse off.