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What kind of person are you?

Hi-FiWolf95

Metal Misanthrope
Shy

Outgoing

Loving

Hateful

Helpful

Compassionate

Apathetic

Anxious

Brave

Forgiving

Grudgeful

Merciful

Manipulative

Open-minded

Sexual

Religious

Spiritual

Musical

Sporty

Hobbiest

etc, or a various combination of the above and various others not listed... Please explain with more detail as to why these are your personality types if you want, and how you've grown as a person to what best describes you now.




Thank you.
 

Minerva_Minx

Succumbing to her own psychosis
Little religious, but it varies, and definitely not as devout Catholic as I was in the past. I'm usually fairly thoughtful and insightful. Also, obnoxious, rash, rebellious, sanctimonious may have been thrown around a time or two, blunt, shy, easilly overwhelmed and humiliated. I try to be kind but find I can be harsher than I want. I'm frightfully unsure of myself and really find myself withdrawing from people easily for fear of offending or being offended. I have a body image issue that floats between uncaring to self-conscious so, yeah, I do selfies and edit them trying to look better or younger. I even try to do the sexy selfies because I read it helps. It surprisingly does, then others misinterpret it and it goes to crashing down.

How I came to be this way? Complicated and layered like a chocolate cake. I've probably s/ated this a dozen times over as many threads. Grew up very orthodox and girl + boy is best anything else is wrong. Having to make my own way with little help or guidance jaded me, so I don't ask for help or support as much because I just don't think I'll ever trust the answer or the person. With little exception, there is a shortage of kindness in the world so I never expect or seek it out - no one just does something for altruism and if they do, you're going to be taken advantage of. Life's short - military life showed me that. So I live as I will and suffer the consequences myself. It's just the truest state of me I can be and why I try to help others. Maybe by helping or showing that rare, genuine kindness to someone it may multiply and keep someone else from following my path. God knows I have no real support system, just being a mouthy b**** and talking a good game, while really I'm just a mess and trying to get by. I can't even keep up with social media I'm so fried.
 

Sam Akuchin Wamm

Well-Known Member
are these personality types or moods?
 

Hi-FiWolf95

Metal Misanthrope
are these personality types or moods?
Either, they're a starting place for how you generally are as a person, and then you explain in detail why you are more of an "x person", but it's not limited to one personality type, several, but I can't imagine many people having all of them at once since some are fundamental opposites imo, and there's more I can't think of off the top of my head.
 

Yakamaru

Spookdogg
Can casual/easy-going/lazy go as passable?
 

Rayd

philosophy & psychology nerd
contemplative and curious, mostly. i love to get into and learn about lots of new, niche things. i developed this sense of curiosity as a child and have always found myself wanting to try everything because it seemed fun. i guess i could be described as adventurous and uncomplacent in my range of enjoyment. i'm very easy to interest in new things, especially if by a friend.

with that being said, i'm a hobbiest since i juggle hobbies and interests all the time.

a bit spiritual, and very philosophical. religiously open-minded. i've become philosophical through being depressed for many years of my life and therefore becoming gradually more and more contemplative about psychology, spirituality and existence over time. i'm religiously open-minded because truly, who is anyone to say what is right or wrong, considering we don't know. although i like to believe that some form of ascension exists, i'm not sure if i'm theistic in that belief, but as i said, i'm about as open-minded as you can get on that topic.

i try to be as self-aware and socially/morally considerate as possible. having had a friend who was an absolute saint, wholesome, kind, generous and laid-back, but also someone who knew how to mess around and have fun, i looked up to them as a role model and try my best to be like them every day of my life. i've come to derive joy and pride from being generally kind and humble, and making those i care about happy, and would never want to make them uncomfortable or upset them. my most ideal life could be described as being a great, dependable friend for many people, and being seen as how i saw that friend of mine. a saint.

i don't hold grudges and generally like to avoid conflict, especially if pointless. i'm unbothered by that stuff and would rather solve things peacefully.

i think a lot about my future and plan super far ahead. i plan on investing as early as i possibly can, ideally in real estate.

although at times my mental health can get the best of me and i can make some rash decisions when it does, i'm self aware of it and try my best to avoid letting it get the best of me, and even when it does, i try to not let it control my actions, and am very apologetic if my actions do affect anyone else.

to sum it all up, i live just to find and indulge in my own fun, wherever i can find it. i like to give just about everything lots of thought. i like to think of myself as at least a half decent person who would do no intentional harm to anybody, even in my worst moods. though emotionally vulnerable, i try not allowing it to affect my character, but i can slip up sometimes.
 

PlusThirtyOne

What DOES my username mean...?
Bad at managing my time, my energy and my friendships.
i'm a depressed and lonely introvert with A.D.D.
My biggest flaw is keeping in touch with people who don't actively ask for my attention.
i do what i'm told but aside from that? -not much else i'm afraid.
 

KimberVaile

Officially elected and actual ruler of FAF
Hmm, I'll bite and share a little about myself.

One of my biggest vulnerabilities in life is how sensitive I am beneath the flamboyant persona.
I'm quite guarded and am pretty wary about who I trust, and I've been that way for some time. Nobody in life starts out just knowing much about anything really. I'd consider myself naive not just as a kid, but throughout a lot of my early adulthood as well. I've been thrown under the bus enough that I overrcorrected from naive optimism to closed off and guarded. Though on the more positive side of things, those who do earn my trust I am very loyal and open with.
 

HistoricalyIncorrect

Shekel collector
Adaptable. That is one thing I can say about myself for sure but even then it is often a roulette.
I am defensive that is for sure. Prideful too which often backfires.

Other than this? Cynical of course.
 

Kinare

RAWR
Detailed answer cuz bored.

Shy - IRL more than online, people spoopy. I've grown a lot here thanks to the internets, but it's still hard for me.
Loving - If I give more than a rat's ass about you, you heccin' know it. I do try to be careful with this though because people take advantage of it.
Hateful - Strugglebus with this one, I can be very hateful under the wrong circumstances.
Helpful - I love to help my friends and even strangers if I can. My job is helping people, and it can be rewarding, when the person on the other end doesn't hate you for your help...
Compassionate - Yeh, gotta be with my job. I've been through a lot, so it makes it easier for me to sympathize with the struggles of others and show compassion when other people just look down on someone or are mean or whatever. This is another though that I have learned to be careful with, people see you're trying to be kind to them and they will abuse that.
Anxious - Almost always, to varying degrees. My life is chaos and can change at any moment for better or worse, which doesn't help that.
Forgiving - To an extent, if I can tell someone is sorry for something and didn't mean for the outcome that happened and it wasn't some huge life altering thing, I can forgive.
Grudgeful - Hurt me or someone I care about on purpose, or on accident too much/in a big way, you're dead to me. I typically have a two-strike policy with many things, I don't give 3rd strikes. If after the first time you don't care about me enough to stop hurting me in the way I've asked you not to and you're not making an effort to stop, not worth trying to force myself to suffer through it.
Open-minded - In most cases, I find I learn a lot more by being willing to discuss things with other people who are actually up for discussions.
Spiritual - I no longer consider myself religious as I don't conform to any one religion, though I was raised Christian (strictly so at times). Due to some childhood experiences, I am convinced of the existence of some spiritual energies in the world. What those mean I don't know, nor do I think I will ever, but I love exploring such things.
Musical - I like to sing. Idk if I'm good, nor do I ever plan on singing publicly, but I do enjoy it quite a bit.
Hobbiest - I does the vidju games and I collect action figures.

There was one incident in particular that really changed me. When I was like 17 or 18 I had a really good friend online and we talked a lot about religion and stuff the religious typically hate, like homosexuality. He was proudly atheist and I, having grown up in a strict Christian home, was his polar opposite. Sometimes the talks got a bit heated, but mostly we didn't get into it because we realized we were too different there. Sometimes we would discuss homosexuality and the like, and I of course thought it was one of the worst things ever, and that's the kind way of putting it. Eventually, after realizing he couldn't convince me otherwise, he decided to just reveal to me that he was gay. But wait... he's not evil, he's not sick, he is good friend. That must mean everything I was told is a lie and gays are actually not the worst people to exist. What else is a lie? And so began a transformation into acceptance, open-mindedness, and a thirst for understanding. As I said above I do still believe there's some sort of spiritual energy in the world, what form it takes I don't know. I also think no one religion has it right. I won't go too much into this train of thought because I don't want to trigger a religious argument, but my main approach to religion is "listen, don't judge, try to understand" - most religions have good parts to them and as long as people do good in this world that's all I'm concerned about.
 

Erix

>‿‿◕
Good(?) Qualities
I'm a pretty shy guy, sorta introverted, and I'm also pretty nice (at least thats what everyone likes to tell me). I'm one of those people who's the sporty type, and I can get pretty competitive when it boils down to competition (though I'm usually fine playing casually). I always want to be a great friend to everyone, and I hope I have been so far at least everyone here. Maybe there could be a few more good qualities but my mind is kinda blanking right now heh, sorta hard to think of good things about yourself.


Bad Qualities TwT
Something I really hate about myself is that I'm pretty socially awkward in real life, and I feel I either turn out to be super quite during a convo or like I just recycle a lot of common questions just to get the convo moving. Another bad quality I feel I have is I can be pretty selfish. I also have a hard time saying no to people sometimes, and that can result in some issues. Wish I could change these in a snap, ugh.
 

the sleepiest kitty

(◡‿◡✿) ꪑꫀꪮ᭙
Shy

Charismatic (as others have told me)

Friendly

Peace keeping

Accepting

Honest

Loyal

Kind

Sad
 
K

Kharne

Guest
My biggest thing I've come to learn about myself is that I'm a very big loner.
I can talk to people, I can approach them (and have to for my job), but I fucking hate it. I've realized for 90% of my time I want to spend it alone. The rest is spent talking to people online lol
 

Dreammaker33

Cute cow that likes computer hardware
I am, contemplative, somewhat detached at times, unpredictable, loyal, dependable, a little unusual, stubborn, flawed, impatient, hopeful, idealistic, sympathetic.
 

Raever

Chaotic Neutral Wreckage
[traits]

etc, or a various combination of the above and various others not listed... Please explain with more detail as to why these are your personality types if you want, and how you've grown as a person to what best describes you now.

I'd say choose five positive and five negative and choose whether you want to explain them or not. It might be more engaging for people than just random trait babbling. These might be a useful link as well: Traits Masterlist - by whatafeelingmp4
I often use them for character development.

As for me...here is my list:

  • Incisive - Intelligently analytical and clear-thinking.
  • Loyal - Giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.
  • Resourceful - Having the ability to find quick and clever ways to overcome difficulties.
  • Tolerant - Showing willingness to allow the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with.
  • Venturesome - Willing to take risks or embark on difficult or unusual courses of action.

  • Amoral - Lacking a moral sense; unconcerned with the rightness or wrongness of something.
  • Callous - Showing or having an insensitive and cruel disregard for others.
  • Disorderly - lacking organization; untidy.
  • Escapist - A person who seeks distraction and relief from unpleasant realities, especially in the form of entertainment or fantasy.
  • Indulgent - Having or indicating a tendency to be overly generous to or lenient with someone.
 

Kit H. Ruppell

Exterminieren! Exterminieren!
Shy, hateful, helpful, grudgeful, sexual, musical, hobbyist.
Loving, given the chance.
 

MadKiyo

Imma bat in yer rafters
Generous, forgetful, paranoid, empathetic, secluded, rebellious, careful, mindful, over-thinking, emotional, artistic
 

Xitheon

The cat's mother.
Confused.
Self-deprecating.
Generous.
Emotional.
Shy.
Chaotic.
Pretentious.
Delusional.
Paranoid.
Neurotic.
Loving and surprisingly affectionate.
Socialist radical and proud SJW.
 

Hi-FiWolf95

Metal Misanthrope
I'd say choose five positive and five negative and choose whether you want to explain them or not. It might be more engaging for people than just random trait babbling. These might be a useful link as well: Traits Masterlist - by whatafeelingmp4
I often use them for character development.

As for me...here is my list:

  • Incisive - Intelligently analytical and clear-thinking.
  • Loyal - Giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.
  • Resourceful - Having the ability to find quick and clever ways to overcome difficulties.
  • Tolerant - Showing willingness to allow the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with.
  • Venturesome - Willing to take risks or embark on difficult or unusual courses of action.

  • Amoral - Lacking a moral sense; unconcerned with the rightness or wrongness of something.
  • Callous - Showing or having an insensitive and cruel disregard for others.
  • Disorderly - lacking organization; untidy.
  • Escapist - A person who seeks distraction and relief from unpleasant realities, especially in the form of entertainment or fantasy.
  • Indulgent - Having or indicating a tendency to be overly generous to or lenient with someone.
Maybe it's really up to the other person to decide, since many people have me figured out already.
 
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