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Where to find a girl that is like this?

Celidarden

lololftft
Mutiquote button, use it, please. :).


Also, you make it sound like your girl HAS to share a common interest in ALL your interests. I suggest breaking it down o perhaps looking for someone who shares an interest with one, maybe two of yours, not every interest.

If I based finding a girl on common interests I think I'd be shit out of luck, how many girls do you know who have an interest in toy and model cars and lego, and building bicycles?

First off... LEGO FOR THE WIN!!!!

*Noob just found multiquote button and face palms*

NO she doesn't HAVE to share ALL of them but it would be very cool, more of will accept them but not really care too much at least.
 

Randy-Darkshade

Bike riding squirrel thing.
First off... LEGO FOR THE WIN!!!!

*Noob just found multiquote button and face palms*

NO she doesn't HAVE to share ALL of them but it would be very cool, more of will accept them but not really care too much at least.

I see your point though, if you have a partner who also shares at least one interest with you, it gives you both something to do together.
 

Valence

Banned
Banned
Hey so hows about you find someone based on their personality instead of rigidly confining your prospects to a few set interests that are going to change over time for both parties anyway and thus are not good indicators of long-term compatibility

just putting that out there, mannn

You're starting to sound like the spokesperson for e-harmony
 

Aden

Play from your ****ing HEART
I do look for personality but common interests would be very nice cause it's nice to share the things I love.

Who's to say you can't find someone nice and introduce them to those things?

You're starting to sound like the spokesperson for e-harmony

I can't work for e-harmony; they hate the ghey
 

TheFruitbat

Seriously Fluffy
I'm like that but seriously, just chill bro. It took me 2 years of knowing my current BF before I knew he was right for me. Don't rush into anything and I sure as hell hope you don't intend to find her on the internet.

Probably just repeating whats been said but everything I've said is pretty much the truth so it's good to hammer it into your head.
 

Deo

The hatred of FAF personified
Yes, they exist. And they're all batshit.
Pretty much this.
99% of furry women who would want to date a specifically furry man, are batshit insane. You do sometimes get a few sane female artists who trickle in and stay, but they mostly date other art students (who may by coincidence be furries as well). But any woman looking specifically for a furry to date is usually a crazy freak. See: Anailaigh. She's the textbook example of a batshit insane fat furry girl who abused men's desperation in the furry fandom.

And I can tell you this as I am a woman.
No I don't like anime.
And I loathe hyperactivity.
And you are jailbait.
Just to get that clear.

OP, a girl doesn't have to like the same stuff as you for you to have a relationship with them. And if they all end in heartbreak, that's probably for different reasons than lack of common interests.
If all of your relationships fail, OP, the only common denominator is YOU. Not the girls or the girls' interests.
YOU.

Hey so hows about you find someone based on their personality instead of rigidly confining your prospects to a few set interests that are going to change over time for both parties anyway and thus are not good indicators of long-term compatibility

just putting that out there, mannn
This is great advice. Aden stop being gay for an hour and let us now have mind blowing sex.
 
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Celidarden

lololftft
I'm like that but seriously, just chill bro. It took me 2 years of knowing my current BF before I knew he was right for me. Don't rush into anything and I sure as hell hope you don't intend to find her on the internet.

Probably just repeating whats been said but everything I've said is pretty much the truth so it's good to hammer it into your head.

It's nice to know you found who is right for you XD. Trust me I am not using the internet to meet the right person.

I think it quite possibly depends on where you live, though. I have no idea what Manitoba is like as far as those populations go.

Manitoba is definitely not the kind of place I should be, Very few furries, anime. Lots of gamers tho.

Pretty much this.
99% of furry women who would want to date a specifically furry man, are batshit insane. You do sometimes get a few sane female artists who trickle in and stay, but they mostly date other art students (who may by coincidence be furries as well). But any woman looking specifically for a furry to date is usually a crazy freak. See: Anailaigh. She's the textbook example of a batshit insane fat furry girl who abused men's desperation in the furry fandom.

And I can tell you this as I am a woman.
No I don't like anime.
And I loathe hyperactivity.
And you are jailbait.
Just to get that clear.


If all of your relationships fail, OP, the only common denominator is YOU. Not the girls or the girls' interests.
YOU.


This is great advice. Aden stop being gay for an hour and let us now have mind blowing sex.

Well the area I live in has girls my age that only go after the tough guys, being skinny, weak, and NICE makes the girls get bored. More then half of the relationships Ive had the girl said im boring cause I'm too nice and the rest is cause I dumped the girl cause she was a jerk. I garantee there was no other reasons cause my ex's friends are usually my friends too and they say that I'm too nice. So ya it is me because I AM TO NICE!?

Also YAY Jailbait.
 

Deo

The hatred of FAF personified
Well the area I live in has girls my age that only go after the tough guys, being skinny, weak, and NICE makes the girls get bored. More then half of the relationships Ive had the girl said im boring cause I'm too nice and the rest is cause I dumped the girl cause she was a jerk. I garantee there was no other reasons cause my ex's friends are usually my friends too and they say that I'm too nice. So ya it is me because I AM TO NICE!?
Reading this I can tell you are a Nice Guy â„¢.
See this: http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml

Being nice is never the problem. There is something else inherenlty wrong with you or your personality if your relationships die and you think it's because you were too nice. That's like the prom queen runner up thinking she lost because she was too pretty. It's a stupid self-delusion.
 

Antonin Scalia

Another Great Post
Reading this I can tell you are a Nice Guy â„¢.
See this: http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml

Being nice is never the problem. There is something else inherenlty wrong with you or your personality if your relationships die and you think it's because you were too nice. That's like the prom queen runner up thinking she lost because she was too pretty. It's a stupid self-delusion.

You really should read this post at least a couple of times.
 

Celidarden

lololftft
Reading this I can tell you are a Nice Guy â„¢.
See this: http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml

Being nice is never the problem. There is something else inherenlty wrong with you or your personality if your relationships die and you think it's because you were too nice. That's like the prom queen runner up thinking she lost because she was too pretty. It's a stupid self-delusion.

NOOOO! The truth hurts...

Also why is Nice Guy a trade mark?
 

Tabasco

Member
Well the area I live in has girls my age that only go after the tough guys, being skinny, weak, and NICE makes the girls get bored. More then half of the relationships Ive had the girl said im boring cause I'm too nice and the rest is cause I dumped the girl cause she was a jerk. I garantee there was no other reasons cause my ex's friends are usually my friends too and they say that I'm too nice. So ya it is me because I AM TO NICE!?

Also YAY Jailbait.

If you're a teenager, you're probably dealing with immature girls who aren't grown up yet and are still fantasizing about being whisked away by Edward Cullen or whomever the kids these days are into. Unless they're the kind of ill person who actually seeks out abuse, women don't dump men because they're "nice," regardless of what they say or what it might be code for, but that's not the norm.

I've dated a lot of such underdogs and always found wonderful reasons to be wary of doing it again. They're anything from freakishly clingy and pandering, to the kind of guy who will stalk you for years afterward, to explosively angry and moody, to so desperate that they latch onto me as the only girl to not scream and run away and use me for two years despite not giving a damn about me. >__>

I'm going to pull this number out of my ass, but I'd say 90% of the people complaining that they can't get a girl can't for a truly valid reason, and the other 10% are decent people who just look too much like the losers women have learned to flee in terror from. I know a lot of nerds, dorks, less-than-hot people, super-nice guys, etc, who have love lives, anyway, so those really aren't the problems in and of themselves.
 

Azure

100% organic vegan hubbas
The strip club is filled with women like this.
 

Term_the_Schmuck

Most Interesting Man on FAF
Don't get me wrong, I'm not desperate or anything.

The fact that you're posting here about relationships clearly means that you are.

Just because someone's been in relationships doesn't dispel their desperation.

The problem with the male furrys who come on here is that 9 times out of 10 they're martyrs who are dependent on affection and haven't grown up enough to take initiative in their own lives, let alone in relationships.

What straight chick can honestly look into the pool of kids here and honestly say they'd like to have a go with any of you? Seriously.
 

Endless Humiliation

Banned
Banned
betas...betas everywhere


must urinate in corners of room to mark territory...
my strong smelling piss will warn off intruders
 
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Celidarden

lololftft
Thank you for your input guys, I will let life take it's course and it will find the right person for me. I know a lot of nice people already and I hope to become friends with some of you. I won't force anything and I will just continue being me.
 

Toaster

Member
Yes. You will definitely find one eventually... unlike me with rivetheads.Fuck this gay earth.
Not true. You're better off. OP is clearly looking for a date on FA, which is an awful idea. OP, just stop look for women, and look at your self. Learn to love your self, don't bring your self down, and put in the effort to better your self in every way. Stop look for some one like, and look for someone that completes you. Stupid.
 
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