Incomprehensible horror. DRAGON
You're going about it wrong. Entirely, completely wrong. You don't play games with people and expect they'll get it. And explaining just makes you look like a manipulative jerk rather than a pleasant person. Either be flirtatious, own up to it, deal with the fallout and set someone straight if you're uninterested, like I do; OR be plain friendly.
But this "I like to be flirtatious to compliment women" comes off as blatantly sexist whether you mean it or not. I'm perfectly comfortable with myself, I don't need someone else's flirtation to feel good.
No worries Somn, She's got a point, I will still take to PMs but I intent to learn from this!guys, take it to the PMs