your Ideal Partner

[Sweetheartz22]

Basically, they have to be:

-Intellectual
-Kind
-Compassionate
-Ambitious
-Able to binge on movie marathons (consisting of anything from comedy to horror) and Netflix (currently working on Breaking Bad)
-Likes video games
-Can make a mad good meal
-Loves to travel
-Be spontaneous
-Is good with kids (for the future, no kids for me atm)

 

[Vær]

Maybe, and I'm just guessing
They don't grasp the meaning of the word.
It's a new concept for some, like Pansexual is as well.

Coming from the outside, i had no clue first day on FA.
I had to lurk and gather what it was as I had the concept but never in use.
I've read about it before but never seen it as an orientation till FA

Kind of figured. I don't mean to cause drama of course. The LAST thing I want.

I just honestly didn't know what to make of that statement. ^w^;; I only wanted clarification so I could share information about it if the OP truly doesn't know what Asexuality is.

 

[aeroxwolf]

Kind of figured. I don't mean to cause drama of course. The LAST thing I want.

I just honestly didn't know what to make of that statement. ^w^;; I only wanted clarification so I could share information about it if the OP truly doesn't know what Asexuality is.

There is NO drama. I've just never heard of that word until FAF. So i want to know why so many people are Asexual

 

[Kinharia]

I don't know, maybe it's mother natures way of keeping the population down? The asexual thing atleast.

 

[Astus]

I don't know, maybe it's mother natures way of keeping the population down? The asexual thing atleast.

It will happen naturally in ecosystems when a population is reaching it's carrying capacity, individuals will stop reproducing to an extent.

 

[Vær]

There is NO drama. I've just never heard of that word until FAF. So i want to know why so many people are Asexual

Ah..well...it's kind of hard to explain WHY so many people are. It's not as if it's a choice. It's completely different from abstinence where a choice is made to refrain from sex.

The best resource, I could gather at the moment, would be to check out the AVEN: Asexual Visibility and Education Network.

 

[Charrio]

It will happen naturally in ecosystems when a population is reaching it's carrying capacity, individuals will stop reproducing to an extent.

Isn't that primarily caused by intense competition, where animals get so stressed they
simply can't breed or will miscarry?

Humans do the same thing under stress, like female soldiers will stop having periods
while in combat. This doesn't mean they will not have sex or stop wanting to have it
like an asexual.

Just wondering, since animals can't be anything like humans in thinking.
Maybe some basic points but nothing like the same thing

 

[aeroxwolf]

Thanks for the link. And Vær dont worry, I wasn't going Dr Evil on everyones ass with the quotation marks. X'D

 

[Vær]

Thanks for the link. And Vær dont worry, I wasn't going Dr Evil on everyones ass with the quotation marks. X'D

Haha, no problem and you're welcome. Sharing knowledge is important. ^w^ It's a great site that explains Asexuality and the, for the lack of a better word, "sub-categories" of Asexuality.

And go Dr. "Evil" all you want! >w< It can be entertaining.

 

[aeroxwolf]

well, back to the topic.

I'd like to meet someone who:
* doesn't try to impress me all the time
* is strong willed and independent
* enjoys movies and video games
* forces me out of my comfort zone
* a natural flirt (not important)
* doesn't argue over petty things (very important)
* open minded to other cultures and views
* good at sex (not important, but it helps)

 

[R_Magedn]

Shit... The comments already started?
*shuffling sideways towards seat*
*spilling popcorn*
'Scuse me...'Scuse me...

 

[Charrio]

Shit... The comments already started?
*shuffling sideways towards seat*
*spilling popcorn*
'Scuse me...'Scuse me...

*Tosses a JuJube at you* Down in front!

 

[Alexxx-Returns]

I'd love someone who was:
- Fiercely intelligent.
- An extrovert, someone I could talk with for hours and who had many friends of his own, who he was always talking about.
- Not a compulsive liar and was honest with me.
- An adventurer, possibly a skater or a surfer, more points for being a surfer. Who liked to go and do crazy stuff on the weekends and do dun stuff indoors or in the garden on weekdays and wind down watching a movie.
- Spontaneous, who always had an amazing idea of what crazy thing we should do at the weekend.
- As interested in the sciences as I am.
- Working, or working towards, working in a scientific field.
- Someone who had too many hobbies to list.
- Has brown eyes.
- Is pretty overweight/chubby.
- Looked good with a beard.
- Has a good sense of humour and maybe is really funny.

 

[Crunchy_Bat]

He must be exactly 6 feet, red haired blue eyed and Irish. Way too into progressive rock to the point where it annoys the shit out of me. Be a silly goof who tells the same jokes I have heard a million times from him before as if he had never told them. He MUST love food and get angry when the supermarket doesn't carry the lamb cut he wants. Destroy me at every fighting game we play, watch me creepily as I draw, love animals, has a job, doesn't own a car forcing me to drive him everywhere further annoying me. Be a cuddly cute ass romantic stuffed with extra cheese and waste way too much money on anniversaries even though I try desperately to talk him out of it. Love me, support me, and never leave.

I really don't know what I look for, I'm already in love and can't Imagine anyone else but him being my mate <3

 

[Torrijos-sama]

"Asexuality" as a term on the internet is used more to denote a lack of interest in sex that is built on experience than it is used to denote a complete lack of a sex drive.

Asexuals (for the most part) can have sex, but it isn't a requirement for a relationship, nor is it something they give undue priority to in one's personal life.

 

[aeroxwolf]

"Asexuality" as a term on the internet is used more to denote a lack of interest in sex that is built on experience than it is used to denote a complete lack of a sex drive.

Asexuals (for the most part) can have sex, but it isn't a requirement for a relationship, nor is it something they give undue priority to in one's personal life.

So Asexual people will have sex, but they rarely lust for it? that sounds.........terrible. I feel sorry for those who are that way. but surly its the result of having a bad or very little sexual experience, meaning its psychological not physical?

 

[Vær]

So Asexual people will have sex, but they rarely lust for it? that sounds.........terrible. I feel sorry for those who are that way. but surly its the result of having a bad or very little sexual experience, meaning its psychological not physical?

No no! NOt at all. I've had sex and had quite a few partners. Don't get me wrong. It's not like I don't LIKE it, per se. I just don't like HAVING it and don't find it important or a priority.

It's pretty much not a need for us. If we do have sex it would usually be in cooperation for our partners who are usually Sexual. We'll take one for the team, so to speak.

It has nothing to do with sexual experience as most Asexuals would probably have sex a few or many times before figuring out their identity.

In a physical sense I just don't get "turned on" in the way others do. When I look at someone attractive the first thing that goes through my mind isn't, "Wow. They're hot! I want to fuck that now!" It's more along the lines of, "Wow. They're attractive! I can't believe something like that exists! Let me enjoy your visage."

 

[Taikugemu]

He must be exactly 6 feet, red haired blue eyed and Irish. Way too into progressive rock to the point where it annoys the shit out of me. Be a silly goof who tells the same jokes I have heard a million times from him before as if he had never told them. He MUST love food and get angry when the supermarket doesn't carry the lamb cut he wants. Destroy me at every fighting game we play, watch me creepily as I draw, love animals, has a job, doesn't own a car forcing me to drive him everywhere further annoying me. Be a cuddly cute ass romantic stuffed with extra cheese and waste way too much money on anniversaries even though I try desperately to talk him out of it. Love me, support me, and never leave.

I really don't know what I look for, I'm already in love and can't Imagine anyone else but him being my mate <3

Cute.

 

[Kinharia]

He must be exactly 6 feet, red haired blue eyed and Irish. Way too into progressive rock to the point where it annoys the shit out of me. Be a silly goof who tells the same jokes I have heard a million times from him before as if he had never told them. He MUST love food and get angry when the supermarket doesn't carry the lamb cut he wants. Destroy me at every fighting game we play, watch me creepily as I draw, love animals, has a job, doesn't own a car forcing me to drive him everywhere further annoying me. Be a cuddly cute ass romantic stuffed with extra cheese and waste way too much money on anniversaries even though I try desperately to talk him out of it. Love me, support me, and never leave.

I really don't know what I look for, I'm already in love and can't Imagine anyone else but him being my mate <3

I MEET SOME OF THE REQUIREMENTS!

 

[Kookyfox]

I'd love someone who's:
-Kind and caring
-Takes decisions (I can never decide on anything)
-who likes to cuddle ^w^
-who has a dominant personality
-who is into the same things as me (Heavy Metal, Drawing...)
-who is supportive of me
-who likes to be surprised
-that do not care about what people may think of whatever he is/is doing
-I like men taller than me
-I like men with long hair
-I like men with a viking look (Long (blond) hair + blue/green eyes being one of my favorites)

 

[Astrium]

My ideal person is intelligent, open to trying new things/hobbies, enjoys a good meal, loves movies, books, video games, music, and all the other cultural/fine artsy things, has opinions and isn't afraid to speak them, enjoys going outdoors and camping, playing games/sports, and just generally fucking around, can make me laugh (doesn't take much), is okay with my occasional total freakouts, can talk for hours about everything and nothing, and, okay, is attractive (I'm a human male, I have needs).

 

[Crunchy_Bat]

I MEET SOME OF THE REQUIREMENTS!

Oh Kinharia senpai, take me!

 

[Kinharia]

Oh Kinharia senpai, take me!

'kay. Gimmie 3 years to get to California

 

[aeroxwolf]

Here's a raft i prepared earlier. hope you find each other

 

[Crunchy_Bat]

'kay. Gimmie 3 years to get to California

Darn by then me and my mate will have already moved to Ireland! Oh the Irony.